Self worth, Midlife, Self confidence, Self belief Nicola Farndell Self worth, Midlife, Self confidence, Self belief Nicola Farndell

What I would say to my younger self

I remember what that feeling was like. It scares us doesn't it? You wonder how you’re going to make it to 40, let alone 50. It feels like the world has played a cruel joke on you. Those thoughts always whirling around in your head, that tight, nervous feeling in your chest and tummy, they make you believe that you’re flawed. You believe that there is something inherently wrong with you.

But there isn’t

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Habits, Wellbeing, Change, Planning, Self worth Nicola Farndell Habits, Wellbeing, Change, Planning, Self worth Nicola Farndell

CRACKING THE HABIT CODE - The secret to building habits that stick

There is no quick fix to putting a new habit in place, nor is there an easy route to follow. A habit will always take willpower, commitment and consistency. But, when fear sets in about your ability to make the change happen, you fill your head with negativity which quickly spreads and takes hold, making you believe you’re not capable or worthy of doing it. So you don’t even get off the starting block. You tell yourself it’s ok, you are fine to stay put, forget the change and building any new habits.

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SETTING THE PACE - Why slowing down is the key to making progress

How many times have you heard the saying “you have to learn to walk before you can run?”

I’ve been reminding myself to do this, telling myself to slow down, not to get too ahead of myself, take it one step at a time, go at a steady pace.

Time is a funny thing. You put so much into having enough time but is this what is actually putting you under the most pressure and leading to you feeling like you’re falling behind?

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